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Our kids, Caedon, Parker & Corbin, and son-in-law, KC

I was given a great gift for Father’s Day this morning that I wanted to share with my kids, and you. Actually, it came from a book my wife Michele gave me yesterday, “One Can Make a Difference,” How Simple Actions Can Change the World.

The book is sustainable storytelling at its best. It features a collection of essays written by both powerful celebrities and average Joe’s. One story by Sean Astin, actor and son of actress, Patty Duke, reminded me of the Rudyard Kipling poem, “If.”

It’s not just a poem, but a kind of user’s manual for life.

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream–and not make dreams your master,
If you can think–and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings–nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And–which is more–you’ll be a Man, my son!

–Rudyard Kipling

3 Comments

1. Michael Gass says:

   June 22, 2010 at 6:18 am

   I enjoyed this post Park. I hope you had a Happy Father’s Day. Thanks for sharing.
2. Park says:

   June 22, 2010 at 6:57 am

   Thanks, Michael. It’s an oldie but a goody.
3. Pete Walsh says:

   June 23, 2010 at 5:07 am

   Thanks Park! Great message…you’re a great dad>

   Pete