“You don’t sip wine, you drink it,” and other essential life skills from a centenarian
What Would You Like to Ask Janet?
Our friend Janet turns 104 on October 15, 2010. She clearly recalls the sinking of the Titanic when she was six. She remembers the smell of the picture house and the sound of the piano player next to the stage when she saw her first silent movie.
She compares herself to an aging baseball player who can’t run the bases so well any more. Although she admires Franklin Delano Roosevelt, she is suspect of his intentions regarding the bombing of Pearl Harbor.
Janet says the best family time is long conversations over meals. The secret to longevity is swimming every day, which she still does, and a glass of red wine during lunch. Every lunch.
“You don’t sip wine. You drink it. Just like the Europeans.”
Janet is a treasure.
Our sons and I are making a film to explore Janet’s ideals on how to live a happy, healthy and sustainable life. To grow old gracefully. What would you like to ask Janet? Please send us your questions in the comment field below, or through the contact form in the upper nav. bar of my blog.
Or follow the conversation on Facebook.
You can ask Janet anything. Although her hearing is fading, and you need to get pretty close for her to recognize you, she is as sharp as if it were 1935.
We will film Janet’s replies and make sure you receive a copy of her answer to your question.


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June 27, 2010 at 4:50 pm
Park,
I enjoyed this post. Thanks for sharing.
June 28, 2010 at 4:34 am
Would love to know what brand of wine Janet drinks so that I can stock up.
June 28, 2010 at 7:15 am
Who were the top 5 people you have admired during your long life and what characteristics did they possess?
June 28, 2010 at 8:20 am
I’ll ask her, Andy. But I have a feeling she doesn’t discriminate by label too often. I know prefers red.
June 28, 2010 at 8:21 am
Thanks for the question, Margie. I think Janet might surprise you in her response.
June 28, 2010 at 12:07 pm
1. Is there anyone she hopes to meet in heaven (other than God, Jesus)?
2. Anything you regret not doing? Anything you wish you had not done?
June 28, 2010 at 12:17 pm
What do you see us worrying about the most, when we really needn’t?
June 28, 2010 at 5:08 pm
Would love to know her top 5 favorite memories that do NOT include family or close friends. (Love Pamela’s question – maybe she’ll tell me what to stop worrying about!)
June 29, 2010 at 7:50 am
What’s your earliest memory?
What’s the first car you drove?
June 29, 2010 at 10:36 am
Jim’s question is what was your biggest joy in life and your biggest sorrow?
June 29, 2010 at 11:05 am
Thank you jGraziani, Pamela, Margie, Jon and Holly for your great questions. We’ll definitely pose them to Janet when we begin shooting next week.
Also, thank you for sharing this post with your friends. We have been getting lots of great questions. You all are already making this a rewarding project.
July 17, 2010 at 10:42 am
[...] Today is the first filming day with our soon-to-be-104-year-old friend, Janet. [...]
August 15, 2010 at 2:58 am
Hi Paul
Great work – and great web presence too! Just discovered Park&co by accident and v impressed.
Would dearly love to see the video if you would be willing share with me here in Singapore.
Many thanks
Rafe
August 16, 2010 at 8:21 am
Wll do, Rafe. We have done all of the filming of Janet, and will be going into editing in September. I’ll letyou know when it comes out. Thanks.
October 3, 2011 at 7:45 pm
Janet is my grandmother. I was surprised and delighted to see this. Is the film complete? Some of our family is getting together in Scottsdale for her 105th birthday in a couple of weeks. She is still swimming every day and is as sharp as ever!
August 24, 2012 at 6:04 am
I am inspired by Janet and hope to share her secrets with a class I am teaching on the Blue Zones. If she had one piece of advice for my students, what would it be?
August 24, 2012 at 8:33 am
Brenda, I think Janet would tell them not to worry. “There’s no sense in it,” she’d say. Here is a trailer with many of her answers:: http://bit.ly/wrM62S, and, you can hear more from Janet here: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL11A26BE2CD5E8BB1&feature=plcp